Life-Saving Mental Health Resources

Hello friends! 

How are you? For the last 3 years I've worked part-time as a Certified Peer Recovery Specialist at

varying community service boards in the Hampton Roads area of Hampton Roads. A peer specialist is someone with lived experience of mental illness and/or substance use disorder. I live with Major Depressie Disorder, Generalized Anxiety, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. For the past 3 years I've worked in substance usr disorder programs helping people in early recovery stay engaged in treatment.

I am often asked a variety of things such as finding a therapist or where to turn for help. Earlier this year I had an assistant who complied this amazing list of life-saving mental health and substance use disorder programs and resources.  Share this with a friend or keep it for yourself. I remember several parts of my mental health journey where I didn't know where the help is, and now I'm passionate about showing others ow to get help! 

Love you, Love God More

Lauren Hope

Good Girl Chronicles 

Mental Health & Substance Use Disorder Organizations

1.Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration	1-800-662-HELP www.samhsa.gov
2.Anxiety and Depression Association of America	240-485-100, adaa.org
3.Children and Adults w/ADD	800-233-4050, chadd.org
4.Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance	800-826-3632, dbsalliance.org
5. International OCD Foundation	617-973-5801                           https://iocdf.org/
6. National Center of Excellence for Eating Disorders	800-931-2237 nceedus.org
7. Schizophrenia and Related Disorders Alliance of American	240-423-9432, sardaa.org
8. Sidran Institute-treats trauma related incidents	Sidran.org, 410-825-9432
9. Treatment and Research Advancements for Borderline Personality Disorder	888-482-7227, tara4bpd.org
10. Psychology Today	www.psychologytoday.com
11. American Foundation for Suicide Prevention	www.afsp.org, Suicide Prevention Lifeline- 1- 800-273-8255
12.National Domestic Violence Hotline	800-799-7233
13. National Institute of Mental Health	Nimh.nih.gov, 866-615-6464
14. National Alliance on Mental Illness	www.Nami.org , 888-999-6264
15. American Psychiatric Association	Psychiatry.org 202-559-3900
16. Veterans Crisis Line	1-800-273-8255
17 LGBT National Help Center	1-800-246-PRIDE, glbtnationalhelpcenter.org
18. Trevor Project, national organization working to provide crisis and suicide services	Thetrevorproject.org, 866-488-7386
19. Office on Women’s Health/mental health	800-994-9662, womenshealth.gov
20. JED Foundation: providing mental health and suicide prevention services for college students	Jedfoundation.org, 1-800-273-TALK, Text Start to 741-741
21. Mayo Clinic-Mental Illness	www.Mayoclinic.org
22. Mind Wise Mental Health Screening: provides mental health screenings for military families	www.Mindwise.org, 781-239-0071
23. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline	1-800-273-8255, suicidepreventionlife.org
24. National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders	Anad.org, 630-577-1330
25.National Sexual Assault Hotline	Rain.org, 1-800-656-4673
26. Samaritan’s Crisis Hotline: suicide prevention	1-212-673-3000
27. Alcoholics Anonymous	aa.org,
28. Al-Anon Support for family members dealing with loved ones who struggle with substance abuse disorder	Al-non.org, 757-563-1600
29. Cocaine Anonymous	Ca.org,
30.Crystal Meth Anonymous	Crystalmeth.org
31. Dual Recovery Anonymous	Draonline.com,
32. Gamblers Anonymous	Gamblersanonymous.org, 626-960-3500
33 Marijuana Anonymous	Marijuana-anonymous.org,800-766-6779
34. Narcotics Anonymous	Na.org, 818-733-9999 ext. 135
35 Nar-Anon support for family members who have loved ones dealing with drug abuse.	Nar-anon.org, 800-477-6291
36. Over-Eaters Anonymous	Oa.org, 505-891-2664
37. Sex Addicts Anonymous	Saa-recovery.org, 1-800-477-8191
38.Smart Recovery- meetings geared towards helping those in recovery.	www.smartrecovery.org, 440-951-5357
39. Emotions Anonymous	Emotionsanonymous.org, 657-641-9712
40.Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbian and Gays, Support Group	Pflag.org, 202-467-8180
41. Postpartum Depression	Postpartumprogress.com
42. Self-Harming	Dailystrenght.org
43. Global Directory of Suicide Hotlines	Befrienders.org
44. Mental Health and COVID	Mhanational.org,
45. Mental Health America	Mhanational.org
46. Online Therapy, Better Help	www.betterhelp.com,
47. mentalhealthfirstaid.org	www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org
48 Warm Lines: peer support line for mental health	Crisisconnections.org, 866-427-4747
49. The Mighty-online website dedicated to telling stories of those handling mental health issues	www.Themighty.com
50. Mental Health America Online Support Groups	https://www.inspire.com/groups/mental-health-america/
51. DBSAlliance.org: Online Support Groups for Depression and Bipolar	https://www.dbsalliance.org/support/chapters-and-support-groups/online-support-groups/

 

No Birthday Party for Lolo

This year my birthday will look different for so many reasons. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic there will be no fireworks on the Fourth of July, and likely no large gatherings. Restaurants are taking limited seating, and personally it's been a rough few months. These are all things I love about the Fourth Of July, but I understand why we can't celebrate the same way this year. Also, there's something different with me this summer. I'm climbing out of a depressive episode.

I'd say since late December I've been slowly falling into a functional depression. Here's some of the lie factors that contributed to m depression: the ending of a friendship, meeting and falling for a toxic man, financial stress, being broken down by someone I started to fall in love with, and on top of that an internet stalker. That has been my life for over six months. I am seeing it now. I am acknowleding the depression. I am working on my healing. I have decided to increase my therapy appointments during this time, and focus on myself.

With that being said, I will not be having a large birthday party this year. I usually love getting together with a large group of people, laughing, eating, celebrating one another. This year I will have a handful of people for a small dinner. I want to reflect on the past few months, eat buttercream cake, and maybe watch a chick flick in a fancy hotel. 

Last year I had an incredible birthday party; a dinner table full of friends, donations to my GoFundne, and contributions to charities I love. If you would like to help me celebrate this year. Here are ways you can send some birthday wishes my way.

You can donate to my GoFundme Page where I am taking donations for equipment to up my YouTube Game.

You can donate to one my favorite charities The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, as a suicide attempt survivor and Virginia Chapter Board member of AFSP I am passionate about raising funds to stop suicide. I am hoping to raise $500 for the Suffolk Out of the Darkness Walk. You can donate here.

You can donate to This is My Brave, an amazing non-profit that gives people with lived experinece of mental illness and or substance use disorder a voice through storytelling.

You can subscribe to my YouTube Channel - I am trying to reach 1,000 subscribers by the end of the year which will allow me to monetize on this platform. 

You can buy a Good Girl Chronicles t-shirt on Bonfire, then snap a picture on your socials to rep the brand.

However you choose I will be grateful!

Thank you in advance.

How A Reality TV Show Brought Back My Hope in Love

Welling up in my face. I could feel the burning of my tears wanting to burst out of my eye sockets. And, I broke. I broke into a river of tears, silent weeping. I let the tears fall down my cheeks, felt the heaving of my chest.

 

And, I realized I still want a profound, once in a lifetime, romantic, bended knee kind of love.

I’ve been watching the whirlwind relationships with Nikki Bella of the Bella Twins, and Artem Chigvintsec of Dancing with the Stars fame.

Last night, I watched Artem’s proposal to Nikki Bella after her birthday dinner in France. If you have not followed Nikki Bella’s journey to finding the one, then you may not understand why it struck me so hard. Nikki was once engaged to wrestling celebrity John Cena. Her relationship with Cena was chronicled on several E reality shows. It ultimately ended when it became apparent that she and Cena did not want the same things. Nicole wanted to be a mother, and wife; something that Cena was having a hard time compromising with. This is skimming the surface.

 

But, for some reason seeing Artem’s proposal to Nicole reached out and grabbed something deep in my soul. For years I’ve let my childhood and adult trauma make me feel that no man will ever love me completely, that marriage is a fairytale not made for women like me.

 

“I want to spend every sunrise and every sunset with you,” said Artem. 

(You have to watch this clip)

 

In that moment, I felt something in my heart leap. A part of me I thought was long dead. I want to be in crazy love. I want to find the one person who wants to love all of me, the partner to venture through the valleys and peaks of life.

 

Don’t panic I’m not running to the dating apps Match or Bumble just yet. I realize that the best thing take time. I need time to love on myself, refocus, pursue my passion of making Good Girl Chronicles LLC my full time job, and find a way to live independently. But, I got a little bit of hope back that somewhere in the universe God has a man just for me.

 

Congrats on your love Nicole & Artem—thanks for restoring a little hope in me.

The Spiritual Spring Cleaning

I've spent the past few days day going through old boxes, blowing the dust off of old picture frames, and reading old high school notes. It's been more cathathric than I thought it would be. For over the past 6 years reflecting on my past has brought me great pain. My heart aches when I think of the television career I once had, the crippling depression that took it all away, and the family that abandoned me. But, this weekend was different.

Spiritually, I feel a shift happening in my life. I feel this tugging on my heart. A gentle voice that says, "PURGE, PURGE." Release as much as you can. This nudging has challenged me to go through old makeup and toss it. Donate clothes I haven't worn in years, and walk back into the past.

The past is hard for a lot of people to revisit I am discovering. It sometimes holdests our darkest secrets, our traumas, and regrets. This weekend I read old love letters from exes whose heartache I thought I would never get over. I read old emails from family members I once thought I could never forgive. I cried a little, but mostly I smiled. For the first time in a long time, I savored the sweetness. While my past is filled with a lot of trauma, rejection, and abandonment. It also has great joy.

Looking at my past journalism awards reminded me I was and AM still an incredibly talented writer, and storyteller. Reading those letters from past flames reminded me I WAS and AM an amazing woman to love. Shuffling through old photographs reminded me of my evolving beauty. Organizing my CD collection reminded me how much I love music. In some way this spring cleaning has brought back some small pieces in myself. Pieces I had forgotten. Pieces I didn't know I needed.

I am certain that this spring cleaning will allow God to show up in my life and replace the things I lost in my past. This spring cleaning will allow God to fill the spaces I made room for.

They say spring is the season of rebirth, and new beginnings. If that is true, then I am making room.

New YouTube Interview Series: Women Who Slay

If you've followed this blog long you know I used to be a television. My suicide attempt in 2014,

changed the entire trajectory of my life. When I think back to when everything shfit, fell apart, broke, or loss direction; I am always taken back to that moment.  The tragedy of my subsquent mental health collapse was that it ended my budding career in television news. I 've done a lot to try to reinsert myself in the business: I am pursuing a Masters in Strategic Communications at Regent University. I have contacted every reporter friend or producer I  know. I've applied for internships. I've asked around. Reached out to my old television agent. For some reason, none of these efforts have made real traction in me becoming a television reporter again. Spiritually, maybe this is God's way of showing me, He has something else for me. Maybe the market is bad. Maybe I am too old, and too of touch with new journalism.  Whatever the case it is, it's not happening.

So I've decided to just GO ALL IN for myself, and my business Good Girl Chronicles LLC. While there is a lot of uncertainty about my future as a television journalist, one thing I am sure of is; I am incredibly talented. I have so much to give this world. I am a brillant storyteller with a keen eye for stories that connect to the heart. I find diamonds in the rough. I meet people with incredible, untapped stories, songs, messages, and efforts. Maybe God is SHIFTING me to shine a light on these people in my own way.

So let me introduce you to the season I call HASH TAG - GO ALL IN! 

You know why I miss television news so much? I miss telling stories, showing the world what they need, want, or should know. Instead of hoping a HUGE corporation will take a bet on me, I'll just bet give you the stories myself.

Bare with me. Some of my video and editing skills are rusty. I will improve as I learn more. The production value will increase over time, and in the journey I think you and I will uncover some beautiful stories.

My first such story is that of Christina Kimbrough, a mental health advocate, friend, a woman choosing sobriety everyday. You may remember I profiled Christina for a blog a few months back. I had no idea Christina was struggling with alcoholism. She's over 90 days sober, and is taking people through her journey of recovery on Instagram. I did a Zoom interview with her about it.

Check it out on my YouTube Channel. 

Be sure to subscribe to the channel! I plan to do interviews and/or vlogs once a week. Know someone with an incredible story -- tell them to email me at teamgoodgirl84@gmail.com

Also if you'd like to sponsor an episode of the podcast you can do so with a donation to www.gofundme.com/teamgoodgirl 

Welcome to the season of #GOALLIN