Monday, July 8, 2019

New Youtube Vlog Series on Love, Sex, and Relationships




Let's Get Real About Love, Sex, & Relationships


You hear people say, "LIVE YOUR TRUTH" all the time. What does that really mean? For me, it means stepping from the shadows of secrets, and owning who I am. I've started a new vlog series on Youtube where I plan to speak my truth about love, sex, and relationships. I am very much a goody two shoes, but I am also human. I haven't always made the smartest choices in love, sex, and relationships. I've carried a  lot of shame, because of it. This year, my 35th year around the sun I'm ready to break free from shame and really start LIVING MY TRUTH!

For the next few weeks I'll be sharing some lessons I've learned dating the wrong men, going against my own personal morals, and secrets that make you sick.

My first vlog is the series is called: Lolo's Family Secret: I Got Daddy Issues. Click the video below to play or go to my Youtube channel here







Good Girl, Bad Choices: How Kim K got me disinvited from a wedding





Wednesday, July 3, 2019

35 and Fabulous: Birthday Blog, 34 Awesome Moments from this Past Year


Happy Fourth of July! Today I am 35 and freaking fabulous. This previous year has been incredible and I've grown a lot as a person and motivational speaker. I decided to take a look at the 34 amazing things that have happened to me this past year.


34 awesome things that happened to me this past year

  1. I adopted my loving, funny, and special dog Boo. Boo Bear has brought so much joy into my life. I was legit nervous to adopt a dog because I thought I could not handle the responsibility. I am growing into a good dog mom.
  2. Attend an Elevation Concert
  3. Starting Tithing
  4. Offered a position as a CRPS in Williamsburg
  5. Became a Registered Peer Specialist
  6. Asked for Help When I Needed It
  7. Starting Enforcing my Boundaries 
  8. Joined a Small Group at church
  9. Took a leap of faith and started hosting storytelling nights
  10. Nominated to the AFSP Board
  11. Featured in Virginian Pilot
  12. Developed real, strong friendships
  13. I decided to go back to WW and lost 4 pounds so far
  14. Transparent in Therapy
  15. Moved in with Carol — rediscovered a sense of family
  16. Left my Toxic job in Portsmouth
  17. Cut out another Peter Pan Man
  18. Started the process of forgiving myself for the mistakes I’ve made in love
  19. Stood up for myself at my toxic workplace which I’ve never done
  20. Helped host 3 major community events for my former employer
  21. Coast Live Interview
  22. Took a leap of faith with my business
  23. Went to Tampa for a Writer’s Conference
  24. Awarded the Hope Award by the Bennett Center
  25. Raised money for homeless shelter
  26. Participated in This is My Brave Arlington 2018
  27. Hosted Shatter the Silence
  28. Made incredible business relationships
  29. Grown in spiritual maturity 
  30. Started my graduate’s degree in Strategic Communications
  31. Started to believe in myself
  32. Started to really experience joys of life
    33. Hosted and coproduced a kid talents show with the RYDE FOUNDATION
    34. Devoted more time to my prayer walk

    Here's to 35 & Fabulous